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	<title>Comments on: Urgent Blamer Intervention Request, No. 2</title>
	<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/</link>
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		<title>By: Flewellyn</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20952</link>
		<author>Flewellyn</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2006 18:22:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20952</guid>
		<description>Hi, new blamer here, I found you through Ginmar over on LiveJournal.

The sheer volume of misogyny directed at Samhita over that post is nauseating.  I would read more of the comments, but I don't want to get a headache from the asshat stupidity.  Frankly, the volume of misogyny found in the progressive blogosphere and community at large is dismaying to me, a feminist and progressive male. 

Kaethe above noted the rather large misconception people have about "innocent until proven guilty", and that they just plain don't know what this legal standard actually means.  She's absolutely right.

From my law courses in college, I learned that it means simply this: the burden of proof that a defendant is guilty of a crime is on the prosecution, and absent sufficient evidence of guilt, the defendant must be found not guilty (which, I might add, is NOT the same as being innocent).  This can be contrasted with "guilty until proven innocent", which requires a defendant to prove innocence, something that can be very difficult or impossible to do (proving a negative, and all).

It does not mean "the defendant's word must be assumed true", it does not mean "any evidence presented by the prosecution, especially the victim, is assumed false", and it certainly doesn't mean "if there is insufficient evidence to prove the defendant is guilty, the victim was obviously lying."

Yet that's how the public (and, scarily, many lawyers and judges as well) treat the standard when it comes to rape cases.  If a woman accuses a man of rape, the assumption is that he is innocent, not until proven guilty, just innocent period.  Sometimes this even means &lt;i&gt;innocent even after proven guilty&lt;/i&gt;!

I still run into people who will talk about what a gold-digging liar Desiree Washington was, even today, years after Mike Tyson was convicted, sentenced, and sent to prison for raping her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, new blamer here, I found you through Ginmar over on LiveJournal.</p>
<p>The sheer volume of misogyny directed at Samhita over that post is nauseating.  I would read more of the comments, but I don&#8217;t want to get a headache from the asshat stupidity.  Frankly, the volume of misogyny found in the progressive blogosphere and community at large is dismaying to me, a feminist and progressive male. </p>
<p>Kaethe above noted the rather large misconception people have about &#8220;innocent until proven guilty&#8221;, and that they just plain don&#8217;t know what this legal standard actually means.  She&#8217;s absolutely right.</p>
<p>From my law courses in college, I learned that it means simply this: the burden of proof that a defendant is guilty of a crime is on the prosecution, and absent sufficient evidence of guilt, the defendant must be found not guilty (which, I might add, is NOT the same as being innocent).  This can be contrasted with &#8220;guilty until proven innocent&#8221;, which requires a defendant to prove innocence, something that can be very difficult or impossible to do (proving a negative, and all).</p>
<p>It does not mean &#8220;the defendant&#8217;s word must be assumed true&#8221;, it does not mean &#8220;any evidence presented by the prosecution, especially the victim, is assumed false&#8221;, and it certainly doesn&#8217;t mean &#8220;if there is insufficient evidence to prove the defendant is guilty, the victim was obviously lying.&#8221;</p>
<p>Yet that&#8217;s how the public (and, scarily, many lawyers and judges as well) treat the standard when it comes to rape cases.  If a woman accuses a man of rape, the assumption is that he is innocent, not until proven guilty, just innocent period.  Sometimes this even means <i>innocent even after proven guilty</i>!</p>
<p>I still run into people who will talk about what a gold-digging liar Desiree Washington was, even today, years after Mike Tyson was convicted, sentenced, and sent to prison for raping her.</p>
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		<title>By: Kaethe</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20855</link>
		<author>Kaethe</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 May 2006 18:23:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20855</guid>
		<description>I would have supported Samhita's statement, but I was offline.  The comments her post elicited demonstrate just how many people are complicit, besides the Women's Lacrosse Team.

One thing I find interesting (and I've been following posts on the case pretty closely) is how many commentators cannot distinguish between the assumption of innocence for an individual accused of a crime and the assumption that a crime occurred.  While you might expect he said/she said handwaving around a date rape case, it seems so unlikely when applied to the violent gang rape of a woman at work.  Why do the defenders of the accused so often go from "they're innocent of this crime" to "no crime occurred?"  I'm sure there's a patriarchy-blaming explanation that I just haven't seen yet.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would have supported Samhita&#8217;s statement, but I was offline.  The comments her post elicited demonstrate just how many people are complicit, besides the Women&#8217;s Lacrosse Team.</p>
<p>One thing I find interesting (and I&#8217;ve been following posts on the case pretty closely) is how many commentators cannot distinguish between the assumption of innocence for an individual accused of a crime and the assumption that a crime occurred.  While you might expect he said/she said handwaving around a date rape case, it seems so unlikely when applied to the violent gang rape of a woman at work.  Why do the defenders of the accused so often go from &#8220;they&#8217;re innocent of this crime&#8221; to &#8220;no crime occurred?&#8221;  I&#8217;m sure there&#8217;s a patriarchy-blaming explanation that I just haven&#8217;t seen yet.</p>
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		<title>By: Fiona</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20744</link>
		<author>Fiona</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 May 2006 19:59:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20744</guid>
		<description>Ack. "Progressive" dudes (scare quotes intentional!) -- the guys who say that rape is bad, of course, but think rape only happens to nuns and children and senator Napoli's hypothetical abortion candidate.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ack. &#8220;Progressive&#8221; dudes (scare quotes intentional!) &#8212; the guys who say that rape is bad, of course, but think rape only happens to nuns and children and senator Napoli&#8217;s hypothetical abortion candidate.</p>
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		<title>By: Ann Bartow</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20735</link>
		<author>Ann Bartow</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 May 2006 17:34:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20735</guid>
		<description>Supposedly progressive dudes can be pretty awful.  Misogyny in the blogosphere (and how the law might deal with it) is one of my summer research projects, and already some of the more sheltered research assistants are freaking out at what they are finding.  Just the stuff directed at me personally could fill a book chapter.  Sunshine can be a good disinfectant, though, or so I hope.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Supposedly progressive dudes can be pretty awful.  Misogyny in the blogosphere (and how the law might deal with it) is one of my summer research projects, and already some of the more sheltered research assistants are freaking out at what they are finding.  Just the stuff directed at me personally could fill a book chapter.  Sunshine can be a good disinfectant, though, or so I hope.</p>
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		<title>By: hedonistic</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20730</link>
		<author>hedonistic</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 May 2006 15:49:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20730</guid>
		<description>1. men hate/fear their own neediness 
2. men need women
3. therefore, men hate women

Who said this first?  I'm curious.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. men hate/fear their own neediness<br />
2. men need women<br />
3. therefore, men hate women</p>
<p>Who said this first?  I&#8217;m curious.</p>
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		<title>By: Twisty</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20729</link>
		<author>Twisty</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 May 2006 15:28:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20729</guid>
		<description>Echidne says misogynists are a minority. I disagree; it is my position---and I would be interested to hear a feminist argument to the contrary---that the entire global social order is &lt;em&gt;founded&lt;/em&gt; on misogyny. If that's the case, one can only surmise that the principle enjoys widespread support; the idea that there are only a few bad apples seems fantastic. Even the supposedly progressive dudes are chick-hatin' slugs, as was recently shown on [WHITEMALE]AMERICABlog.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Echidne says misogynists are a minority. I disagree; it is my position&#8212;and I would be interested to hear a feminist argument to the contrary&#8212;that the entire global social order is <em>founded</em> on misogyny. If that&#8217;s the case, one can only surmise that the principle enjoys widespread support; the idea that there are only a few bad apples seems fantastic. Even the supposedly progressive dudes are chick-hatin&#8217; slugs, as was recently shown on [WHITEMALE]AMERICABlog.</p>
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		<title>By: Ann Bartow</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20723</link>
		<author>Ann Bartow</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 May 2006 14:13:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20723</guid>
		<description>Actually I think feminists who blog have a pretty good idea about how much men hate them.  Echidne of the Snakes said something along those lines here: http://avastconspiracy.blogspot.com/2006/03/misogynists-in-my-study.html and into my fifth month at "Feminist Law Professors," I think she understates things.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually I think feminists who blog have a pretty good idea about how much men hate them.  Echidne of the Snakes said something along those lines here: <a href="http://avastconspiracy.blogspot.com/2006/03/misogynists-in-my-study.html" rel="nofollow">http://avastconspiracy.blogspot.com/2006/03/misogynists-in-my-study.html</a> and into my fifth month at &#8220;Feminist Law Professors,&#8221; I think she understates things.</p>
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		<title>By: Twisty</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20722</link>
		<author>Twisty</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 May 2006 13:52:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20722</guid>
		<description>Women have no idea how much men hate them.

Germaine said it, I believe it, and that settles it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Women have no idea how much men hate them.</p>
<p>Germaine said it, I believe it, and that settles it!</p>
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		<title>By: Fiona</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20712</link>
		<author>Fiona</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 May 2006 01:36:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20712</guid>
		<description>De-lurking to add some more Duke case odiousness: on the Straight Dope message board, supposedly a place for smart people to share their expertise in the fight against ignorance, there is a thread with the oh-so-civilised name of &lt;a href="http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=366822&#38;page=1&#38;pp=50" rel="nofollow"&gt;Lying whore.&lt;/a&gt;  At last count, it was seventeen pages long, and I quit reading it after the first few, quite befuddled at the level of misogyny reached by supposedly clever people.  I know, nothing should surprise me by now.

Dipping into it again, I found &lt;a href="http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=7431221&#38;postcount=824" rel="nofollow"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt; post.  By now they've started quibbling back and forth over statistics; the composer of said post has claimed that the rape of black women by white men is statistically low. Obviously, then, the woman he's been debating with has a hankering for (and I quote) "slavemaster-style rape".

As if this isn't nauseating enough, another guy goes on to suggest that it's true.  I thought that men were supposed to pretend to know better by now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>De-lurking to add some more Duke case odiousness: on the Straight Dope message board, supposedly a place for smart people to share their expertise in the fight against ignorance, there is a thread with the oh-so-civilised name of <a href="http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=366822&amp;page=1&amp;pp=50" rel="nofollow">Lying whore.</a>  At last count, it was seventeen pages long, and I quit reading it after the first few, quite befuddled at the level of misogyny reached by supposedly clever people.  I know, nothing should surprise me by now.</p>
<p>Dipping into it again, I found <a href="http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=7431221&amp;postcount=824" rel="nofollow">this</a> post.  By now they&#8217;ve started quibbling back and forth over statistics; the composer of said post has claimed that the rape of black women by white men is statistically low. Obviously, then, the woman he&#8217;s been debating with has a hankering for (and I quote) &#8220;slavemaster-style rape&#8221;.</p>
<p>As if this isn&#8217;t nauseating enough, another guy goes on to suggest that it&#8217;s true.  I thought that men were supposed to pretend to know better by now.</p>
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		<title>By: Cass</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20696</link>
		<author>Cass</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 May 2006 20:25:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/05/25/urgent-blamer-intervention-request-part-2/#comment-20696</guid>
		<description>With all respect to the fine posters at Feministing, of whom I'm the greatest of fans, I'd like to take this opportunity to thank our hostess for providing this troll- and troglodyte-free haven for us here, free of the gaseous emissions and general pollution of white-male rage so in evidence throughout the greater part of the blogosphere. I'm sure I'm not the only one that feels this way... we need more spaces of our own.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With all respect to the fine posters at Feministing, of whom I&#8217;m the greatest of fans, I&#8217;d like to take this opportunity to thank our hostess for providing this troll- and troglodyte-free haven for us here, free of the gaseous emissions and general pollution of white-male rage so in evidence throughout the greater part of the blogosphere. I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;m not the only one that feels this way&#8230; we need more spaces of our own.</p>
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