Comments on: Sex http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/ Wed, 08 Feb 2012 20:42:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Feministe » Everybody Get Together http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-28419 Feministe » Everybody Get Together Fri, 03 Nov 2006 22:50:49 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-28419 [...] If you read feminist blogs regularly you know, I think, that the last few months have seen an eruption of discussions similar in theme to the one mentioned above. That one was over whether fun (and personal grooming habits) can ever transcend patriarchy. This one was over whether blow jobs could ever be anything but “fucking gross.” This one was over how much authority any individual woman has in evaluating her intimate experiences–”that was rape” versus “but I didn’t process it as rape,” to use a clumsy shorthand. And there have been others I’m sure I’m forgetting, doubtless because I wanted to; because no matter how much I say I love confrontation (and I do, I really, really do), I don’t think I’m alone in feeling that many of these confrontational discussions quickly went beyond productive dialogue, in the course of which We All Learned Something, to This Is Just Plain Exhausting, Please Stop. [...] [...] If you read feminist blogs regularly you know, I think, that the last few months have seen an eruption of discussions similar in theme to the one mentioned above. That one was over whether fun (and personal grooming habits) can ever transcend patriarchy. This one was over whether blow jobs could ever be anything but “fucking gross.” This one was over how much authority any individual woman has in evaluating her intimate experiences–”that was rape” versus “but I didn’t process it as rape,” to use a clumsy shorthand. And there have been others I’m sure I’m forgetting, doubtless because I wanted to; because no matter how much I say I love confrontation (and I do, I really, really do), I don’t think I’m alone in feeling that many of these confrontational discussions quickly went beyond productive dialogue, in the course of which We All Learned Something, to This Is Just Plain Exhausting, Please Stop. [...]

]]> By: Pony http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26226 Pony Wed, 13 Sep 2006 18:48:19 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26226 Twisty: Colombian women have been reading this blog. http://ca.news.yahoo.com/s/13092006/6/n-odds-hear.html Twisty: Colombian women have been reading this blog.

http://ca.news.yahoo.com/s/13092006/6/n-odds-hear.html

]]> By: Violet Socks http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26068 Violet Socks Mon, 11 Sep 2006 04:19:05 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26068 Twisty, I am delighted to have made you laugh. Usually it works the other way. Twisty, I am delighted to have made you laugh. Usually it works the other way.

]]> By: Twisty http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26041 Twisty Sun, 10 Sep 2006 13:47:46 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26041 <em>the Bob was actually married to a Playboy Bunny, which in those dark days (the Sixties) was what passed for a “sexually liberated” woman. Unlike today.</em> Dr Socks makes a funny joke. Ha! the Bob was actually married to a Playboy Bunny, which in those dark days (the Sixties) was what passed for a “sexually liberated” woman. Unlike today.

Dr Socks makes a funny joke. Ha!

]]> By: ginmar http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26039 ginmar Sun, 10 Sep 2006 10:34:38 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26039 I love mens' definition of freedom: everything's free for me! I love mens’ definition of freedom: everything’s free for me!

]]> By: Pony http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26021 Pony Sun, 10 Sep 2006 02:43:54 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26021 Whatever little I can do. Right now I feel young too, listening to the Vaughn Bros. doin' Hillbillies from Outer Space. Now hows that for tying threads together here? People? Send me mp3s. I don't buy music. Screw them. Whatever little I can do.

Right now I feel young too, listening to the Vaughn Bros. doin’ Hillbillies from Outer Space. Now hows that for tying threads together here?

People? Send me mp3s. I don’t buy music. Screw them.

]]> By: Violet Socks http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26019 Violet Socks Sun, 10 Sep 2006 02:28:23 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26019 <i>Violet Socks, unbelievable I know, but he was AFTER my time.</i> I feel young! Violet Socks, unbelievable I know, but he was AFTER my time.

I feel young!

]]> By: Pony http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26011 Pony Sun, 10 Sep 2006 00:45:46 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26011 Violet Socks, unbelievable I know, but he was AFTER my time. I was never into him. Someone sent me an MP3 of the horrid tune in question. which is apparently the top of the whatever charts and making zillions for the dude who after all knows whose back $$ is made from. I am still purging my hard drive with various virus protectors, and it didn't even have a virus just I think bleach would be harmful to my rig, no? As far as I remember, from my Joan Baez albums, she was hooked up with him at one time, but was fortunate to get out alive. She doesn't charge for her anti-war concerts. And hers ARE worth listening to and buying if you buy I don't. Violet Socks, unbelievable I know, but he was AFTER my time. I was never into him. Someone sent me an MP3 of the horrid tune in question. which is apparently the top of the whatever charts and making zillions for the dude who after all knows whose back $$ is made from. I am still purging my hard drive with various virus protectors, and it didn’t even have a virus just I think bleach would be harmful to my rig, no? As far as I remember, from my Joan Baez albums, she was hooked up with him at one time, but was fortunate to get out alive. She doesn’t charge for her anti-war concerts. And hers ARE worth listening to and buying if you buy I don’t.

]]> By: Pony http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26009 Pony Sun, 10 Sep 2006 00:40:39 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26009 Well some others of us from the sixties have learned a bit, why can't he? (Rh?). And the friggin album is from NOW, as is the young woman dressed as the revolution's billboard. Not to mention, the rest of the dudes crying over seals for whom women are invisible unless in the bedroom or kitchen are about her age too, and they haven't got it either. So what the fuck is the reason to include them anywhere, again? Well some others of us from the sixties have learned a bit, why can’t he? (Rh?). And the friggin album is from NOW, as is the young woman dressed as the revolution’s billboard. Not to mention, the rest of the dudes crying over seals for whom women are invisible unless in the bedroom or kitchen are about her age too, and they haven’t got it either. So what the fuck is the reason to include them anywhere, again?

]]> By: Violet Socks http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26003 Violet Socks Sun, 10 Sep 2006 00:10:50 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2006/08/28/sex-2/#comment-26003 <i>Look, Dylan’s from the Sixties, the decade in which men invented ‘free love.’ </i> Indeed -- the Bob was actually married to a Playboy Bunny, which in those dark days (the Sixties) was what passed for a "sexually liberated" woman. Unlike today. Look, Dylan’s from the Sixties, the decade in which men invented ‘free love.’

Indeed — the Bob was actually married to a Playboy Bunny, which in those dark days (the Sixties) was what passed for a “sexually liberated” woman. Unlike today.

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