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		<title>By: dari</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2007/01/03/dimple-appreciation-studies-101/#comment-52081</link>
		<dc:creator>dari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Apr 2007 05:03:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh for the love of God, Kelleybell has it right. We don&#039;t need &quot;men&quot; keeping us down. We do a helluva job on our own. Yes, Oprah can make me cringe sometimes, but then I remember how little I do and I thank the Lawd she&#039;s doing what she&#039;s doing. She may not be perfect, but I don&#039;t demand perfection from people. 

People love to hate Oprah. It seems like such a waste of precious energy that could be spent on actually doing something about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh for the love of God, Kelleybell has it right. We don&#8217;t need &#8220;men&#8221; keeping us down. We do a helluva job on our own. Yes, Oprah can make me cringe sometimes, but then I remember how little I do and I thank the Lawd she&#8217;s doing what she&#8217;s doing. She may not be perfect, but I don&#8217;t demand perfection from people. </p>
<p>People love to hate Oprah. It seems like such a waste of precious energy that could be spent on actually doing something about it.</p>
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		<title>By: crack whore</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2007/01/03/dimple-appreciation-studies-101/#comment-48155</link>
		<dc:creator>crack whore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2007 11:09:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;crack whore...&lt;/strong&gt;

Relevant crack whore...</description>
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<p>Relevant crack whore&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Twisty</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2007/01/03/dimple-appreciation-studies-101/#comment-32205</link>
		<dc:creator>Twisty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2007 14:46:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I appreciate your perspective, Naz. I do not want to give the impression that I begrudge these girls their astounding good fortune. One merely wishes that Oprah exhibited a bit more of the old revolutionary spirit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I appreciate your perspective, Naz. I do not want to give the impression that I begrudge these girls their astounding good fortune. One merely wishes that Oprah exhibited a bit more of the old revolutionary spirit.</p>
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		<title>By: Naz</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2007/01/03/dimple-appreciation-studies-101/#comment-32203</link>
		<dc:creator>Naz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2007 14:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, I&#039;ve been reading this blog on and off for a month or so and find it interesting and generally amusing. But as a South African, I take issue with the Oprah dissing. I think she&#039;s doing a really great thing here. Sure the beauty salon and Hollywoodness of it all is a little overkill but think about it. These girls will be given a shot at a real, fulfilling, successful life. There are schools in South Africa (loads of them) with a 0% matric pass rate ie every single high school senior fails to graduate. Girls are sexually abused by elders or forced into sexual relationships with high school boys because they need protection from other boys or from their teachers. Most South African girls will become illiterate, unskilled women, usually HIV positive, living poverty stricken lives, subsisting off a R180 (thats about $18) a month government child support grant. With no hope of anti-retrovirals, they will die of AIDS leaving child headed families at the mercy of the elements and violent, unscrupulous people. If Oprah can give these 150 girls three square meals a day, a warm bed, protect them from the man-animals, and give them a world class education (which they will not get in a South Africa public school) I say BRAVO. And I don&#039;t care if they become materialistic, fashion whores. Its better than the other alternative.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, I&#8217;ve been reading this blog on and off for a month or so and find it interesting and generally amusing. But as a South African, I take issue with the Oprah dissing. I think she&#8217;s doing a really great thing here. Sure the beauty salon and Hollywoodness of it all is a little overkill but think about it. These girls will be given a shot at a real, fulfilling, successful life. There are schools in South Africa (loads of them) with a 0% matric pass rate ie every single high school senior fails to graduate. Girls are sexually abused by elders or forced into sexual relationships with high school boys because they need protection from other boys or from their teachers. Most South African girls will become illiterate, unskilled women, usually HIV positive, living poverty stricken lives, subsisting off a R180 (thats about $18) a month government child support grant. With no hope of anti-retrovirals, they will die of AIDS leaving child headed families at the mercy of the elements and violent, unscrupulous people. If Oprah can give these 150 girls three square meals a day, a warm bed, protect them from the man-animals, and give them a world class education (which they will not get in a South Africa public school) I say BRAVO. And I don&#8217;t care if they become materialistic, fashion whores. Its better than the other alternative.</p>
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		<title>By: vera</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2007/01/03/dimple-appreciation-studies-101/#comment-32154</link>
		<dc:creator>vera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jan 2007 04:12:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My copy of Firestone&#039;s Airless Spaces just arrived. So, when do we begin reading?n</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My copy of Firestone&#8217;s Airless Spaces just arrived. So, when do we begin reading?n</p>
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		<title>By: jane awake</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2007/01/03/dimple-appreciation-studies-101/#comment-32153</link>
		<dc:creator>jane awake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jan 2007 03:20:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>kelleybell, 

I don&#039;t think Oprah is being criticized in this thread because she is &quot;imperfect.&quot; I think she is being criticized because her language and plans for the educational facility put an unnecessary focus on beauty when the focus should be on learning. I think we can all agree that when a powerful person&#039;s â€œimperfectionâ€ is their tendency to support patriarchy-authored-and-enforced beauty ideals, we must criticize that person, whether she or he is Oprah or Donald Trump (who very name causes me to throw up a little in the back of my mouth).

I really enjoyed your quote: &quot;Marie Wilson, founder of The White House Project said recently in a speech: &#039;We have this desire and expectation that the first woman president be perfect.&#039; That is simply not possible. &#039;Iâ€™m Tired of it!&#039; She exclaimed.&quot; I agree that women are scrutinized to the nth degree when they try to break through that marble ceiling (which is, of course, why Oprah is so obsessed with beauty).

I think this is also the reason Hillary Clinton&#039;s Wellesley college thesis is under seal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>kelleybell, </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think Oprah is being criticized in this thread because she is &#8220;imperfect.&#8221; I think she is being criticized because her language and plans for the educational facility put an unnecessary focus on beauty when the focus should be on learning. I think we can all agree that when a powerful person&#8217;s â€œimperfectionâ€ is their tendency to support patriarchy-authored-and-enforced beauty ideals, we must criticize that person, whether she or he is Oprah or Donald Trump (who very name causes me to throw up a little in the back of my mouth).</p>
<p>I really enjoyed your quote: &#8220;Marie Wilson, founder of The White House Project said recently in a speech: &#8216;We have this desire and expectation that the first woman president be perfect.&#8217; That is simply not possible. &#8216;Iâ€™m Tired of it!&#8217; She exclaimed.&#8221; I agree that women are scrutinized to the nth degree when they try to break through that marble ceiling (which is, of course, why Oprah is so obsessed with beauty).</p>
<p>I think this is also the reason Hillary Clinton&#8217;s Wellesley college thesis is under seal.</p>
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		<title>By: octogalore</title>
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		<dc:creator>octogalore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jan 2007 21:05:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, the LA Times article on the Gates foundation was really eye opening.  

I agree with KTal that we shouldn&#039;t automatically assume benefactors know what they&#039;re doing or that their hearts or in the right places.  However, we shouldn&#039;t assume the reverse either, or conflate Oprah with the ohters.  Do we know that the charities to which her network has donated over $50M are corrupt or even inefficient (especially since she covers all admin costs)?  Do we think $10M to Hurricane Katrina relief was misdirected?  While she certainly shouldn&#039;t be immune to criticism, we do sound like harpies if our criticism is not substantiated a la the LA Times article.


Cypress --- I am not suggesting that microcredit doesn&#039;t work in places like Bangladesh, and I give to the Grameen bank for that reason.  My point is that whether in Bangladesh or LA, anytime potential entrepreneurs have access to education, they can benefit even more from loans, as their resulting businesses have more chance of success.  Moreover, in any country, women with stronger business plans as a result of education will qualify for more and larger loans, through microcredit or other mechanisms.  So, while I am not arguing that microcredit requires education, it doesn&#039;t replace it either.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, the LA Times article on the Gates foundation was really eye opening.  </p>
<p>I agree with KTal that we shouldn&#8217;t automatically assume benefactors know what they&#8217;re doing or that their hearts or in the right places.  However, we shouldn&#8217;t assume the reverse either, or conflate Oprah with the ohters.  Do we know that the charities to which her network has donated over $50M are corrupt or even inefficient (especially since she covers all admin costs)?  Do we think $10M to Hurricane Katrina relief was misdirected?  While she certainly shouldn&#8217;t be immune to criticism, we do sound like harpies if our criticism is not substantiated a la the LA Times article.</p>
<p>Cypress &#8212; I am not suggesting that microcredit doesn&#8217;t work in places like Bangladesh, and I give to the Grameen bank for that reason.  My point is that whether in Bangladesh or LA, anytime potential entrepreneurs have access to education, they can benefit even more from loans, as their resulting businesses have more chance of success.  Moreover, in any country, women with stronger business plans as a result of education will qualify for more and larger loans, through microcredit or other mechanisms.  So, while I am not arguing that microcredit requires education, it doesn&#8217;t replace it either.</p>
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		<title>By: kelleybell</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2007/01/03/dimple-appreciation-studies-101/#comment-32143</link>
		<dc:creator>kelleybell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jan 2007 12:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rock on KTal.</description>
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		<title>By: KTal</title>
		<link>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2007/01/03/dimple-appreciation-studies-101/#comment-32142</link>
		<dc:creator>KTal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jan 2007 06:50:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That story is a fine example of that of which I spoke.  

And criticism would be met with, &lt;em&gt;Well its their money and they give you some don&#039;t they? What are you bitchin&#039; about?&lt;/em&gt;

No its not. Its the African&#039;s money, earned from their land and their labor and their sacrifice.  Everytime some ass tells me that Africans are too stupid to run their own governments, I seethe. You try standing up with an elephant sitting on your back.

By the way, it was 70 here in the northeast, it still feels like late spring. Its creepy. Keep them fires burnin&#039; for us Billy and Melinda.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That story is a fine example of that of which I spoke.  </p>
<p>And criticism would be met with, <em>Well its their money and they give you some don&#8217;t they? What are you bitchin&#8217; about?</em></p>
<p>No its not. Its the African&#8217;s money, earned from their land and their labor and their sacrifice.  Everytime some ass tells me that Africans are too stupid to run their own governments, I seethe. You try standing up with an elephant sitting on your back.</p>
<p>By the way, it was 70 here in the northeast, it still feels like late spring. Its creepy. Keep them fires burnin&#8217; for us Billy and Melinda.</p>
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		<title>By: slade</title>
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		<dc:creator>slade</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jan 2007 05:40:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hate the fact that micro and woman seem to be used hand in hand.  A loan is a loan.  Why are loans to women called &#039;micro?&#039;  Why can&#039;t we call them Survival Loans?  Or Women Loans?  Or F*ck You Not Loans?

What they should really be called is Get The F*ck Off My Back Loans...or nicely put when requesting financial assistance from the Gates Foundation...GTFOMB Loan, please.

Or Carry Your Own F*cking Water On Your Head Loan...that would translate nicely as CYOFWOYH Loan, please.

Anyone read the LATimes article on the Gates Foundation?  grrrr.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hate the fact that micro and woman seem to be used hand in hand.  A loan is a loan.  Why are loans to women called &#8216;micro?&#8217;  Why can&#8217;t we call them Survival Loans?  Or Women Loans?  Or F*ck You Not Loans?</p>
<p>What they should really be called is Get The F*ck Off My Back Loans&#8230;or nicely put when requesting financial assistance from the Gates Foundation&#8230;GTFOMB Loan, please.</p>
<p>Or Carry Your Own F*cking Water On Your Head Loan&#8230;that would translate nicely as CYOFWOYH Loan, please.</p>
<p>Anyone read the LATimes article on the Gates Foundation?  grrrr.</p>
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