Comments on: “Women withhold sex because men let them get away with it” http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2010/06/12/women-withhold-sex-because-men-let-them-get-away-with-it/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 15:18:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Ugsome http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2010/06/12/women-withhold-sex-because-men-let-them-get-away-with-it/#comment-188650 Ugsome Thu, 19 Jan 2012 11:06:00 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/?p=3875#comment-188650 Neira, could Twisty's term 'fuck toilet' be illustrated any more clearly? Neira, could Twisty’s term ‘fuck toilet’ be illustrated any more clearly?

]]> By: Neira http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2010/06/12/women-withhold-sex-because-men-let-them-get-away-with-it/#comment-188622 Neira Wed, 18 Jan 2012 22:49:47 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/?p=3875#comment-188622 'This is a time-tested, and frequently used, cruel thing for women to do to men. For most men, sex is as important as breathing, so withholding it in order to get something she wants or simply to punish her man for his transgressions is a pretty awful thing to do, even if it is effective. Read more: http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-10-cruel-things-women-do-to-men_3.html#ixzz1jqvfU1BC ' Ohhh fucking hell. Now simply wanting to own your own internal organs is being 'cruel' to men. ‘This is a time-tested, and frequently used, cruel thing for women to do to men. For most men, sex is as important as breathing, so withholding it in order to get something she wants or simply to punish her man for his transgressions is a pretty awful thing to do, even if it is effective.

Read more: http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-10-cruel-things-women-do-to-men_3.html#ixzz1jqvfU1BC
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Ohhh fucking hell.

Now simply wanting to own your own internal organs is being ‘cruel’ to men.

]]> By: ElkBallet http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2010/06/12/women-withhold-sex-because-men-let-them-get-away-with-it/#comment-168837 ElkBallet Sun, 26 Sep 2010 22:42:51 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/?p=3875#comment-168837 (sorry for the separate post, I wanted to add something) Fox got the name wrong. It should be "How to talk your woman into having sex when she doesn't want to, especially cause you suck in bed: The next best thing to roofies! (sorry for the separate post, I wanted to add something)
Fox got the name wrong. It should be “How to talk your woman into having sex when she doesn’t want to, especially cause you suck in bed: The next best thing to roofies!

]]> By: ElkBallet http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2010/06/12/women-withhold-sex-because-men-let-them-get-away-with-it/#comment-168836 ElkBallet Sun, 26 Sep 2010 22:36:51 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/?p=3875#comment-168836 "In the wild world of men’s advice columny, “purposefully withholding” sex is universally understood as a wholly nefarious, cruel, and mystifying method of female retribution. That’s because sex is a commodity to which men are entitled by the Global Accords Governing Fair Use of Women." *Groan* It's true. I remember signing the "I am a masturbation sleeve" clause of my relationship contract. Or did I? I could write this whole advice article a lot shorter. Congratulations by the way, I now hate Fox News even more than I already did. Here are the reasons I've been a manipulative shrew, aka witholding sex. 1. I'm tired. 2. I'm depressed, and yes, the problem may be with the guy. Men nag too. 3. You suck in bed. Because if I'm not enjoying sex, then I'm not going to waste 5 min. - 2 hours of my day to trying not to chafe while the guy gets off. What's not on this list? Power plays, manipulation, etc... Maybe instead of trying to blame the woman (that's a new one) they should do a little introspection. It's occam's razor, the simplest explanation. It could be that we spent days coming up with plots about how to get revenge by giving the guy blue balls and using our vaginas for manipulation, or it could be, horror of horrors, that she just doesn't feel like it! Ta-dah, I solved it. “In the wild world of men’s advice columny, “purposefully withholding” sex is universally understood as a wholly nefarious, cruel, and mystifying method of female retribution. That’s because sex is a commodity to which men are entitled by the Global Accords Governing Fair Use of Women.”
*Groan* It’s true. I remember signing the “I am a masturbation sleeve” clause of my relationship contract. Or did I? I could write this whole advice article a lot shorter. Congratulations by the way, I now hate Fox News even more than I already did. Here are the reasons I’ve been a manipulative shrew, aka witholding sex. 1. I’m tired. 2. I’m depressed, and yes, the problem may be with the guy. Men nag too. 3. You suck in bed. Because if I’m not enjoying sex, then I’m not going to waste 5 min. – 2 hours of my day to trying not to chafe while the guy gets off. What’s not on this list? Power plays, manipulation, etc… Maybe instead of trying to blame the woman (that’s a new one) they should do a little introspection. It’s occam’s razor, the simplest explanation. It could be that we spent days coming up with plots about how to get revenge by giving the guy blue balls and using our vaginas for manipulation, or it could be, horror of horrors, that she just doesn’t feel like it! Ta-dah, I solved it.

]]> By: Cyberwulf http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2010/06/12/women-withhold-sex-because-men-let-them-get-away-with-it/#comment-168539 Cyberwulf Sun, 29 Aug 2010 17:48:48 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/?p=3875#comment-168539 I love how "How To Deal With Angry Feminists" doesn't suggest that men examine their own behaviour to see if they've done something to provoke an angry response. I love how “How To Deal With Angry Feminists” doesn’t suggest that men examine their own behaviour to see if they’ve done something to provoke an angry response.

]]> By: Cherry http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2010/06/12/women-withhold-sex-because-men-let-them-get-away-with-it/#comment-168520 Cherry Fri, 27 Aug 2010 09:45:28 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/?p=3875#comment-168520 Howdy! New blamer on the block, here. I've been lurking for a while, and finally decided to post. AskMen.com is Douchebag Central. I'm only able to visit that site on an empty stomach, else I'll barf into my shoes. Reading some of the comments is a real eye-opener; I never realized that there are <i>so many</i> stupid & hateful men crawling around. YouTube is just as bad; totally infested with knee-deep toxic misogynist sludge that is almost impossible to wade through. I've decided to just stop reading comments altogether. @ Awhirlinlondon: Um... why is it that, with all the fucking evil shit that men say and do in our world (much of which is socially acceptable), everyone is SOOOO "shocked and disgusted" by that excerpt from Andrea's book? Seriously? Considering all of the debasing, dehumanizing and incredibly cruel things that men have said about women... you're <i>disturbed</i> by that? OKAY Howdy! New blamer on the block, here. I’ve been lurking for a while, and finally decided to post.

AskMen.com is Douchebag Central. I’m only able to visit that site on an empty stomach, else I’ll barf into my shoes. Reading some of the comments is a real eye-opener; I never realized that there are so many stupid & hateful men crawling around. YouTube is just as bad; totally infested with knee-deep toxic misogynist sludge that is almost impossible to wade through. I’ve decided to just stop reading comments altogether.

@ Awhirlinlondon: Um… why is it that, with all the fucking evil shit that men say and do in our world (much of which is socially acceptable), everyone is SOOOO “shocked and disgusted” by that excerpt from Andrea’s book?

Seriously? Considering all of the debasing, dehumanizing and incredibly cruel things that men have said about women… you’re disturbed by that?

OKAY

]]> By: Alexa http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2010/06/12/women-withhold-sex-because-men-let-them-get-away-with-it/#comment-168511 Alexa Thu, 26 Aug 2010 06:33:37 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/?p=3875#comment-168511 So what do radfems think? Liberal and lipstick feminists don't speak for me. Who the hell calls themselves a radical feminist and bashes Andrea Dworkin? So what do radfems think? Liberal and lipstick feminists don’t speak for me.

Who the hell calls themselves a radical feminist and bashes Andrea Dworkin?

]]> By: Awhirlinlondon http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2010/06/12/women-withhold-sex-because-men-let-them-get-away-with-it/#comment-168510 Awhirlinlondon Thu, 26 Aug 2010 06:21:29 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/?p=3875#comment-168510 Yes, drawn from Dworkin's first novel and not, in fact, an example of What Radical Feminists Think. Even so, it does not inspire me to laughter. Yes, drawn from Dworkin’s first novel and not, in fact, an example of What Radical Feminists Think. Even so, it does not inspire me to laughter.

]]> By: Saphire http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2010/06/12/women-withhold-sex-because-men-let-them-get-away-with-it/#comment-168505 Saphire Wed, 25 Aug 2010 18:07:11 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/?p=3875#comment-168505 Do you detest men that viciously rape women? Or do you just sigh for them, and voice your concerns when a feminist steps out of line? Do you detest men that viciously rape women? Or do you just sigh for them, and voice your concerns when a feminist steps out of line?

]]> By: Saphire http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2010/06/12/women-withhold-sex-because-men-let-them-get-away-with-it/#comment-168504 Saphire Wed, 25 Aug 2010 18:05:32 +0000 http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/?p=3875#comment-168504 I detest that repellent, revolting, inhuman misogyny on every level I can think of. Who has more power and is more evil - the patriarchy, a whole society working to take the autonomy from women, or a fictional representation of Andrea Dworkin? You're on the wrong blog. I detest that repellent, revolting, inhuman misogyny on every level I can think of. Who has more power and is more evil – the patriarchy, a whole society working to take the autonomy from women, or a fictional representation of Andrea Dworkin? You’re on the wrong blog.

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